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Perfect Guide to Naughty Sex
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Perfect Guide To Naughty Sex
Men and women’s bodies share similarities such as having g-spots (albeit in different places) and orgasms that people have either found out for themselves or been taught through science. However, there are other things that lovers can experiment with that can be just as, if not more, exhilarating to standard sex.
It is a well-known fact that men and women are turned on by many different things, sometimes not even by stuff that is considered a sexual turn-on. Satin is a major mood enhancer for Satinists, finding that the material is the only thing that hits the spot. Then there are those with a balloon fetish that, without insertion into any delicate regions, can have sexual encounters with the inflated objects.
Fetishes range, but depending on certain individuals can either be a turn-on or a turn-off. Couples have to be aware that pushing their fetish on their lover may not be the best thing to do, as it could be something quite strange if they haven’t been enlightened to your fetishes before. If you like feet, tell him or her before you engage in acts.
Dressing up (or down) for the occasion with sexy lingerie is a great idea as it is as sexy as it is made out to be. But women don’t have to be the only ones to make the effort. If he’s comfortable to do so, there are costumes or undergarments for men to wear to get his lady excited.
Using toys can make some people feel inadequate, but they don’t have to feel so if a couple understands that it is to stimulate both partners. Some people find it sexy to use toys or watch pornography with their lover to get in the mood and this can be the case for some, but you may need to check that isn’t off-putting.
G-spots may as well be sign-posted these days. Most people know that a woman gets the best sensations from stimulation of the clitoris or vaginal g-spot in the pelvic area. They even have the ability to reach multiple orgasms by stroking the clitoris until climax and then focusing on the vagina. Doing this builds up tension again and when she’s ready for it you switch back to rubbing the clit. This gives consecutive orgasms but can prove exhausting... in a good way.
In fact, whereas men have only one way of climaxing, women can have different experiences depending on situations. For example, pleasuring oneself in an environment that has the possibility of being caught brings with it the adrenaline rush as well as the resulting orgasm. Best examples of thrill-seeking opportunities would be at work (maybe not at your desk) or in the next bedroom to housemates or even parents!
For him, there is the other sensitive area in the anus, but most men are unwilling to try it or don’t know how or where to start. If he’s interested, then it might be worth looking this is up in more detail. If he isn’t interested though, it is not worth pursuing, as it is a slightly scary.
Methods so far have all concentrated on the “individual” involved in sex rather than the “couple”. But if you both want to experience untold pleasure, what you really need to do is work as one to achieve the best result. Rather than just focusing on the erogenous zones of each person, you should explore all of each other’s bodies in a non-linear fashion.
Foreplay is very important, especially when you are in a relationship. Instead of caressing left breast, right breast and then clitoris, a man should kiss and caress all of his partner’s body. Kissing and hugging intensifies connection between two people and is more likely for lovers than those who have just met, but it still helps to reinforce the bond.
Men love it when a woman is confident; if she appears to be enjoying herself and comfortable with her partner and his actions, it’s a real turn-on for men. If she seems reserved with what she is doing, it can make the gentleman think he’s doing something wrong. On both sides, reassurance of your partner is key to having a good time.
Women love to be complimented, so calling her sexy and beautiful before, during and after sex can also be good, especially when it’s the truth. The same goes for women: showing your man what you love about him definitely put him in the mood.
Finally, sex is about enjoying yourself and each other, not scripting times and places to have sex or what exactly you are going to do. It is a good idea to let your lover know what you want to do but not exactly what you are doing, otherwise it can become a process rather than something to evoke emotion and satisfaction. Remember to be spontaneous and passionate when you have sex; it’ll make you feel like you’re sharing something special with your partner compared to other couples.
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